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Oftentimes, adults have more power in society than young people. Because of that power, they have greater access to information and resources needed to create change.
- How was I taught to interact with adults?
- In my family, in my culture, how am I expected to talk with adults?
- Is it okay to tell adults what I think or am I expected to listen?
- Is it okay to disagree with an adult?
- Is it okay to ask an adult for support?
- Do I feel comfortable working with adults?
- What would make me feel more comfortable?
Different families and different cultures have different rules and expectations about how youth and adults interact. Be aware of what you have learned about interacting with adults — and identify the things you want to change or keep the same as you build relationships with adult allies.
As you plan for Mix It Up at Lunch Day, think about what you need in terms of support from adult allies. How exactly can adult allies help you make your event a success? What resources — supplies, meeting space, and snacks — can adult allies provide? Maybe they could also help bring more adult allies to the table.
Like in most new relationships, miscommunication will happen. Address misunderstandings as soon as you can, learn from it and move on. And remember, creating change is important. All of your efforts are worth it.
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